Although I re-entered Network Marketing back in June of 2010, I really didn't start to look at the opportunity I got involved with for its business side until September of 2010. Events in my job had me focused on closing a project due to a client choosing to outsource their services. This kept me busy until August 2010.
Why did I tell you all that when the topic here is "avoidance" behaviors? Well, I knew that I was going to be out of job come August of 2010. I knew that I would receive pay from the job through September of 2010. I knew I needed to find something new but I didn't do anything about it. We often refuse to look at the reality of the issue until we are forced to face it. I would classify that as a type of "avoidance" behavior.
Once I started to actively pursue my opportunity I got a lot of advice of what I should be doing. Like building relationships on Facebook. How to use my Twitter accounts (note the plural) and start blogging. I was even told that maybe I should get a second Facebook account just to market myself as a Network Marketer. All this great advice from other successful people within my opportunity and I was off doing what they suggested. All of those things weren't bringing me any closer to success. They were distracting me from the simple steps outlined in my back office and from other's in my opportunity that would push me towards success. I seen the light after spending months working on the suggestions I was given. They were enabling me to avoid what I needed to be doing. I had to change.
I got rid of the accounts I didn't need. The extra Facebook account, the blog and I shut down Twitter. I had to reorganize my daily mode of operation. I had to rid myself of the "avoidance" behaviors I created. Why, because I wasn't in front of decision making people. I wasn't talking to people about my opportunity. I wasn't being successful.
It only takes 7 days to create a habit. (It seems like it takes forever to break one.)
Break your avoidance behaviors today and build your way to success.
[Source: Eric Worre - Network Marketing Pro]